2 year bf betrayed me, like this new guy but don't know if i can trust any guy. please advice?

Me and my bf broke up and a month after he went back to his country and got engaged to his ex. Wonder if she was ever an ex or not. I was totally hurt and broken and just don't wanna trust any guy anymore. But I do have some attraction for this friend of mine. Problem is I don't know if he likes me, if I can trust another guy/relation anymore. And more importantly, how do I find out if he likes me or not? So confused :-( Please help...Thanks...2 year bf betrayed me, like this new guy but don't know if i can trust any guy. please advice?
You need to stay away from your friend right now because you're still hurting, you don't want to just jump into a relationship straight out of a mess. and you also don't want your friend to be a casualty of your angst and desperation. Right now you miss being in a relationship but actually functioning in one is a whole other story. Take some time out for yourself and date. Go out with your girls, have fun, but don't corner yourself right now because the new guy will just be getting what your ex deserves and that's your anger. Give yourself a few months. If you still have feelings for your friend in a few months then cross that bridge when you get to it. Right now you just need male comfort, but don't use your friend.2 year bf betrayed me, like this new guy but don't know if i can trust any guy. please advice?
You need to stay friends with this new guy. You are vulnerable and not in a good place to start a new relationship with anyone. Because you have been betrayed that will carry into a new relationship until you have healed from the last one. Don't do that to yourself or the new guy. Work on your negative feelings about the betrayal and then start a new relationship when you can trust again.
The thing is, you should definitely forget about the jerk that hurt you like that. It's cruel and totally wrong that he did such a thing to you. What I think you should do, personally, is go to the friend, confess your feelings for him, but then say... I just need some time to think about it for a little. If he's a real friend he should understand. I hope my advice helps you, I am so sorry about what happened.
juss find out in the way he speaks to you and reacts to you.. may be he'll have a soft corner for you.... if this doesn't help just show him what you are feeling for him(don't tell him...... try to convey through signs) hope u understand... make sure it is not stupid. observe his reactions...


if there is nothing like that be normal with him again...


and always remember you can love only one and those who are close to your heart.... it may not be necessary that attraction means love...


be just with yourself...


all the best for your love...
in my opinion i would say, go for this new guy. you only live once, if you dont you will probably start questioning yourself why you didnt. besides its not like you have to rush things. start seeing the guy for awhile see what he's like etc... then when you know defiently what you feel. start from there
You have to give this new guy the benefit of the doubt, give him a chance. Try not to think of the bad things from before, if you relax then it will all be ok.
You need some time and then you will again find some nice guy you can trust on. You can start talking with your friend and when you are sure enough to trust on him you can ask about his feelings.
i know you may not care but dont go for the hottest guy you know go for someone you know you can trust
That's a very unique situation, it will most definitely not apply to all men.
let him to your heart donot to bedroom





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Your head is spinning from all the emotional turmoil, you really aren't over him yet, do you think it wise to move into another relationship with your head like that? Broken relationships and divorces are similar to a funeral, you lost something special in your life. Now you need time to grieve it, that is to say to get your head to stop spinning. At that point you will be able to trust you own instincts again to be able to tell you if something is wrong with this relationship or not. Going into a relationship with your head spinning prevents you from doing that, it becomes more like you throw yourself into it and try to make it work and you brain can't get the message to you that it isn't right. So the thing to do is back away for a while, a couple of months really, and let get your head straightened out. If this is the guy, he will be there when you are ready. If he isn't at least you didn't try to force something to happen that you would have had to regret.