I need advice. My parents do not trust me anymore and won't let me do anything. How do I regain their trust?

Plus they won't let me get a cell-phone!I need advice. My parents do not trust me anymore and won't let me do anything. How do I regain their trust?
Trust is earned.... so you have to start earning it back!! Start with the small things that they do let you do or ask you to do: if they ask you to do the dishes for example, do them RIGHT AWAY, and do them very well. If you go out and say you'll be back by say, 5 p.m. for dinner, be back early. If they ask you what happened at school or in a fight or something, tell them the EXACT and WHOLE truth - if they check you out, they will find you told the exact truth, and you will earn trust. If you say you will do something, DO IT no matter what - impress them!!





Bit by bit you can earn their trust back (and maybe even get a cell phone....)I need advice. My parents do not trust me anymore and won't let me do anything. How do I regain their trust?
Although you didn't tell us anything leading to mistrust from your parents, anything about your gender, age, etc, you can try doing these:


1. Start looking around to find any work at home of which you can perform by yourself without being told by your parents. That piece of work should not be a private one.It should be the work that benefit everyone at home. eg, wake up early in the morning before them and start cleaning the house in and out, prepare good breakfast for the family, lunch or dinner, wash and press (iron) your parents clothes, clean family utensils, clean your parent's car if they have one, gardening, etc. Those jobs will stimulate their love desire to you because you will be seen as helpful person at home than a useless one.


2. Be creative to do anything of finantial importance to save cost of your family budget. That thing should also not demand finantial cost from you except your energy, patience, etc.


3. Be close to your parents all the time when they are at home, so that when you see any of your parent is involved in anything, try to help him/her, or just tell him/her to rest and you do it alone.


4. If they are planning to spend money for your items, some of which you have, eg clothes and shoes, you can tell them to save that money for family use. Tell them that what you have are enough for now.


5. If somebody give you an offer, pls, tell them. And if the offer is in terms of money, use that money for the family benefit.


6. Associate your parents in everything you think about your future and ask them to advise you. Appreciate their advice even if you are not interested with it. If your interest is different keep it top secret. You will find good time later, try to convince them slowly and step by step.


7. Always show interest to your parents. Try to appreciate what they do for you and for the whole family at large.


8. If you have done something wrong, please call them and apologise quickly.
Well my sister was in the same situation for a very long time untill i gave her advice. Every time she would ask to do something my parents would say no and then my sister would flip out and tell them off and be a huge *****. So i told her that for the next little while when you ask the parents to do something and they say no just say ok and walk away. So after a while of being mature and civil my parents started letting her do stuff again
I've been in that situation. It will take some time. It helped when I talked to them how i felt about the trust issue (maybe the guilt) and I let them know I was sorry and hope to regain their trust. They will open up but you have to do your part whether that's doing something you have been told to do or simply telling the truth.
do what ever what your parents tell you 2 do





though you should do it by pattern my friend.





On days like monday wed, and friday, you should definitely do as they tell you to do





On days like Tues day and thursday, act like you hate it, but do as they please,





And for Sat, and Sun day go crazy
the best parent pleaser is to volunteer in the community, when you lose respect from your parents the only way to regain it. it through your community envolvement. Try doing some community service work after school. They will see that you are sorry and give you another chance.
a cell phone.....right. How old are you? Maybe they don't think you need one and they don't have the money to pay for it. Then again, maybe you pissed them off really bad. But, maybe they are just mean, I dunno. To regain their trust, show them that you are responsible.
It depends on your age


%26lt;10: YOU'RE UNDER TEN. You don't need a cell!


10-12: They're protecting you, and since they won't let you go anywhere why need a phone?


13-15: Depends on what you did.


I would go on but there's no way you're over 15.
In part, it depends on what you did to lose their trust, if anything. You'll have to regain it slowly over time. Start by asking them to give you some minor responsibility and move on.
What did you do to lose their trust?





If you don't know why, ask them and they'll tell you


The only way to regain their trust is to learn how you broke their trust and show them they can trust you again.
You can start by helping them with tasks that they normally have to do.. cleaning... yardwork and so on. Next you need time with acting responsible. Next you have to commit to being respectful of them and you will regain it.
Try obeying them until you are 18 maybe you can earn their trust again, but if you are always trying to manipulate them to get things your way -oh well.
well wat did u do to lose there trust i mean if u crashed there car or something its really impossible to get there trust bak but if u lik lied or something then its easy or did they jus not trust u in the first place
there gay.. what did u do?
Well it all depends wat u did too lose their trust... to regain it back you neeed to show them that you care... so do something good and help around to house
hmmm talk to them..nothing much else you can do.
Get an abortion.