My boyfriend is going on holiday with his mates...should i trust him??? pls gimme ur advice. is it d end?

i've been wit my boyfrnd for 3 months but i've known him for longer. he's an amazing guy, full of life and very sociable. we really go well together and even his mates make gr8 company. i enjoy every minute i'm with him. however lets put this clear, he is very cute %26amp; he gets all the girls he wants. ok now dont think i m possesive, i m not but i think that in a relationship you dont date other girls/boys if you are going out with some1.


Well d thing is that he is going abroad for a whole week wit his mates and they are currently single. i know them well and im sure that they will hitch up with girls for 1 night stands and so on just for fun...d thing is that im not so sure that my boyfrnd will just sit down in a bar %26amp; watch his buddies make out. obviously i dnt wanna spoil his fun but it is not fair for me either that he joins in wit them cos i really value our relationship and knowing my boyfriend unfortunately he is very instinctive and i have a feeling that he is gonna b unfaithfulMy boyfriend is going on holiday with his mates...should i trust him??? pls gimme ur advice. is it d end?
Consider it a test.


If he is faithful then you are in luck


If he is not faithful then at least you know nowMy boyfriend is going on holiday with his mates...should i trust him??? pls gimme ur advice. is it d end?
if you think he's going to be unfaithful, then why are even with him??
The minute we have pulled we dont just go and grab a room... at like 7pm .... we drink and dance (Well try to ) until the small hours no one will get left behind.... he will be fine.... and not everone will get their leg over.... each and everynight....
If he loves you why should he behave in any way that would distress you?If he trusts you;why do you not trust him?
I agree with the dude with a hat ....
He's going to plat hide-the-salami as much as he can
Trust is very important in a relationship, although naturally i would feel the same.





Whether hes on holiday or at home if he's going to cheat on you he will





I would try to relax, if you want to be with him you are going have to grit your teeth, while hes on holiday keep busy you wont think about it as much.
without trust you dont have anything anyway so you've got nothing to lose. Seriously if you are with a guy that makes you feel like hes gonna cheat theres something wrong, why didnt he ask you along ?





saying that though, i always got suspected of being a cheat by my ex just because i always had girls after me but i would never cheat ever, just cus your bf get lots of female attention doesnt mean hes gonna cheat.





Its all about trusting.
So are you intending to be chaperone or what? Whether you watch him or not he will do whatever he has the compulsion to do. If you don't trust him your in the wrong relationship....move on.
You have to trust him and stop torturing yourself that he might - He hasnt even gone yet!





If you carry on about it, he may get fed up with you and do something. So my advice is try extra hard to be the best thing that has ever happened to him so he wouldnt want to stray.
it's reasonable to be a little bit possessive in a relationship, as long as you're not coming up with rules for him to follow or whatnot. as far as going on a trip with his friends, i say you should just let him go and trust that he'll be faithful. and if not, then kick him to the curb, cuz he's not worth it.
You say you're not possessive and yet this sounds like a bit of a rant.





You've only been together for 3 months - he's quite entitled to go on holiday with his mates without getting the third degree from you.





I'm afraid you'll have to face it. He will go on this holiday - he may, or may not be faithful to you. If he is you'll never know and if he's not you'll never know - either way your paranoia will inevitably cause damage to the relationship.


You describe him as a good catch in every other way. I'm assuming this holiday was booked before you came along so either chill out - let him have his week of fun - if you two stay together it may be the last time he goes away with his mates OR get possessive about it and split up!
The funny thing is I'm in the same boat...only I'm the one going on holiday with my single friend and my boyfriend of two years of worried. To be honest I would be worried too if I was you. I have talked with my bf many times, and he knows I love him, but I dont think either of us actually knows that is going to happen when I'm gone. European boys can be hard to resist. i just say to talk to your man, and see what he is thinking, just find out and tell him your feelings. Good luck

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