I went to friends for advice, but lost my girlfriends trust in return, what can I do to get it back?

I really need help here, I love this woman too much to let her go. I've practically cried infront of her, written her love poems that I do, and told her how I really feel. I say ';I love you'; and shes pauses, then says, ';ok'; or ';yea';. Please I need expert help, I need her.I went to friends for advice, but lost my girlfriends trust in return, what can I do to get it back?
ntimacy relies on trust. If want to get more intimate with your partner, you have to build the trust in your relationship. Sounds pretty easy, but what could trip you up is the underlying fears. You鈥檙e afraid of opening up; they鈥檙e afraid of being hurt. The great irony of trust is: you want trust because you are afraid of being hurt, yet your fear is what prevents you from gaining trust. Here is how to help build trust in your relationship.


Instructions





* STEP 1: Know who you are and make sure your partner knows, too. Don鈥檛 be afraid of who you are. Until you are comfortable inside your skin, trust is always going to slip through your fingers.


* STEP 2: Build respect for yourself. When you respect yourself as a person, you give others good reason to believe that you will respect them as people.


* STEP 3: Let your actions match your words. When your partner can see that what you do and say line up, the trust is easy to come by.


* STEP 4: Meet adversity in the relationship head-on and solve the problem. Letting things linger unresolved siphons away the trust because it puts a damper on the momentum of a relationship.


* STEP 5: Give the person a reason to trust you. Share the exploits of your day. Talk about your plans for the future. Always be open and honest about what you are doing, and when you are doing it.


* STEP 6: Be calm. Ever hear someone describe their partner as their rock? Being calm gets you there.


* STEP 7: Talk to each other about everything, not just about the important stuff.


* STEP 8: Compromise when facing a problem. By showing that you are willing to bend, your partner will also made adjustments.





Overall Tips %26amp; Warnings





* Have faith in yourself and the other person. Belief influences outcomes in relationships.


* Don鈥檛 forget that learning to trust is just as important as building trust.


* Avoid secrets. Nothing ruins trust faster.


* Don鈥檛 lie about what you will be doing on the weekend with your friends. Be open and honest.


* Don鈥檛 deny your needs. You鈥檒l wind up resenting the other person. Ask instead why you think your needs must go unmet in order for trust to flourish.I went to friends for advice, but lost my girlfriends trust in return, what can I do to get it back?
maybe shes not ready yet to say i love u. to some people those words mean alot and they dont say them to they mean it. if she dont love u yet dont worry doesnt mean she dont care just means shes not to that level yet chill and give her sometime!
Trust has to be EARNED and you cannot navigate how long it could take for it to happen. Don't push her on the trust thing. Just make it your job to 'stay on point' by BEING HONEST WITH HER and don't do anything stupid like what you did any more. STOP involving other people in your personal life involving her. Keep treating her with the respect she's looking for or you will be dumped!!
Well it sounds like you're obsessed. give her a little space. You don't need her. You want her. Seek GOD.
IM SORRY TO SAY BUT IT SOUND LIKE SHE DOES NOT FEEL AS YOU DO, IF SHE DID SHE WOULD EXPRESS


HER FEELING FOR YOU AS YOU HAVE TO HER, TIME


'TO FIIND SOMEONE THAT WILL APPRECIATE THE


LOVE OF A GOOD MAN. SHE NOT THE ONE. TRUST ME.