Sunday, December 27, 2009

Advice on trust issue?

i've been very depressed for most of my life, but the last few years i've worked on myself and i'm almost happy. when i was young before i was depressed, i had alot of friends and no social problems. but since my depression, i stopped talking to most people, and found two good friends that weren't to well known in school. i've been nearly invisible. i've realized that i need to change, and i've made some ne friends, one in particualr who is very well known at school, and is an awsome person who really gets me. we started hanging, other people who knew her made friends with me and i'm a little more well known now. the thing is that i'm afraid of being hurt. i've opened up to her and at frist i though we could be best friends all the time, but she's moody and she's VERY good friends with ALOT of people. i'm afraid i'll somehow lose her or get hurt, and the fear makes me back away from her and all the other friends i've met. i want to be invisible again, but i know it's bad. advice?Advice on trust issue?
stop worrying about the pain and think about the benefits of being yourself they are your Friends not just because of her but because of you and trust she knows this or she wouldn't be your fiend in the first place unless of coarse she thought you were a charity case ans she was a saint and that's not itAdvice on trust issue?
Yes, all of us are human and we make mistakes. So even though you seem to see your best friend as a ';perfect'; person, she has her own bad habits and weird character that you may not see at all. So if you are afraid that she will tell on you since you have confided in her so many things, then don't tell her so much. Hope this helps.

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