Sunday, December 27, 2009

Friendship/Trust Issues- Advice Appreciated?

Apparently, my two best friends just seem to get further away from me.





I don't really see how... and so, I've sort of become frustrated these past few days and have just tried to hide and avoid them.


I am trying to disappear from their lives, but I guess my weak point(s) clearly show that I want their attention in a way.





I like/love Friend A. Friend A likes someone else.


Apparently, Friend B was 'there' for me when I was having a hard time dealing w/ heartbreak due to Friend A. (Friend A did not feel the same towards me, and there was a time period where we hardly talked to each other. It had me heartbroken).





Thankfully, Friend A and I are friends again, but sometimes I doubt the trust of our friendship.


I found out from Friend B that Friend A likes/loves someone else.


I wasn't aware of this.


I felt that I should be informed of this, if at least not asked for advice upon. It sort of had me... down and feeling unworthy.





Just today I find out Friend B developed a liking for Friend A, too. To them, they seek all my attention in this matter, in contrast to when I was in their situation.





I still am touchy towards Friend A.


I feel as if I'm just there for an 'entertainment' purpose; I can trust Friend A with anything, but they can't trust me.





Am I right in acting the way I am? Should I approach them?





Thank You.Friendship/Trust Issues- Advice Appreciated?
You say trust issues but i don't know why. I think if friend A did not have the same feelings for you but you are friends now ... well ... if you are touchy with F- A it's just cuz you are close. I know it's natural to be upset of you really like someone and they don't return the favor. If F-B likes F-A, don't stand in the way as it will push them farther from you.





Be jealous but try and act ok. Ask F-A what they think of F-B.





i really have no idea whether i'm helping or not.

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