Sunday, December 27, 2009

Overprotective mom, plz i need some advice, and trust me this has to do with dating!?

my mom, whenever i have a girlfriend, shes is always like o hows ___ did u see ___ today, and stuff like that. and, she says that i cant have a gf i can only have ';special friends'; she wont even let me go on dates when i used to have a gf and since i cant go on dates, that is the main reason i dont have a gf (i wouldnt want to have a gf i couldnt go on dates with) Does anyone have any advice????


ps. im 15Overprotective mom, plz i need some advice, and trust me this has to do with dating!?
im 15 too and im not allowed to date either..and wen i go to group things withboys and girls they try to get my 19 y/o bro to go with me.... i kno how you feel.....Overprotective mom, plz i need some advice, and trust me this has to do with dating!?
Have you ever asked your mom why she imposes these rules, or why she has these specific thoughts about you and dating?


Tell her that you realize you are young, but you want to be able to date. Maybe the two of you can come up with a compromise. For example, your mom may let you date a girl if you introduce the girl to your mom. And she may allow you to go out on group dates with the girl.


Like I said, try to figure out what made her come up with this to begin with.
First...


You get into a conversation as to why youre not allowed to have a gf or date w/e.


Then she says she doesnt wanna talk, then you raise your voice..


Basically you would have to start a fight and win have your points set out and make yourself known to your own mom. Thats if she is that kind of mom.


The other is to simply ask you when do u turn 16, then you can drive, right, well guess what that means... dates.


The last thing i could say would be to prove yourself to your mom, ask her to give you a chance with one... make a deal or w/e. You could aslso ask well what would i have to do to prove to you i can date. If she says nothin and youre not gonna.. then if it were me, i would get into a fight and not stop until i got wut i wanted, even if i got grounded, i wouldnt care. Be confident but polite at first. Then get dirty if you have to
Tell your mom that it is not up to her. Its part of being a teenager, tell her you need room to grow an experience these things.She's most likely taking it out of proportion.

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