My boyfriend dumped me a couple of months ago. Just last month he begged me to get back together, I gave him a second chance because I still had feelings for him and I knew that he really felt sorry for what he did.
I told him that it would take some time for me to be able to trust him again. And so my boyfriend keeps on calling me, READING my text messages, texting me, stays with me ALL day long. At first it was awesome but now I'm getting fed up. The other day I was out with my mom and he didn't believe me and he told me he wanted to speak with my mom.
Today I came back home and had to go get my hair done for an hour, I left my phone at home. When I came back I had 4 missed calls and 2 messages. I phoned him he didn't answer. He called me later and said he was sleeping earlier. Anyway, he keeps on checking everything I do. He even called my friend today to ask if I was with her because I simply didn't answer his calls.Boyfriend trust issue... ADVICE!!?
He just has a guilty conscience, you don't have to put up with it though, you decided to give him another chance, so make the decision with your head instead of your heart. Emotional decisions always feel good at the moment, but when reality kicks in your head is like '; what the hell did I get myself into';Boyfriend trust issue... ADVICE!!?
Thisi s a red flag that the relationship is unhealthy, it may or may not eslcalate from here. The question is, do you want to be around when it does?
If he can't trust you,and you have given him every reason to trust you and he aint listening then i would dump him. I know you care about the guy, but if he don't listen when you say stop then you don't want someone like that. Also, you have to trust in a relationship and if he cant trust you, then it just aint good for either of you because he probably wont let up on checking up on you. But, all this checking up on you makes me wonder, seems weird at the beginning of your relationship he didn't do it an now your back together and he is.But if he aint listening to you find someone else, because trust me you can find someone better who will trust you.
just explain to him that well it is nice that he cares a lot and that you spending time together you still need a bit of space on your own so that you can cherish you relationship and also explain that for the relationship to work you both need 2 trust each other, and why not suggest having a break well he goes away to london and maybe hooking up when he gets back and see how u feel bout each other, good luck
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