Sunday, December 20, 2009

I have a trust issue and i need some advice?

My girlfriend says sometimes its ok to go out and do our own things with friends every once in awhile to have some breathing room but theres one problem I dont trust her but shes always telling me dont worry I wont do anything wrong. The last girl I dated before her said the same thing but she ended up cheating on me. What should I do.I have a trust issue and i need some advice?
you should trust her, unless she's done something to give you a reason not to. don't punish this girl for your last girls mistakes. otherwise, don't expect this relationship to last too long.I have a trust issue and i need some advice?
You have to remember that your girlfriend is not your ex girlfriend. Has your current girlfriend done anything suspicious? Sounds like she hasn't and you are just scared that she'll break your heart like your ex did. But just know that it's healthy to do things on your own like go out with friends and if she has demonstrated fidelity to you thus far, she will keep demonstrating that when she's not with you. Because you went out with one cheater doesn't mean everyone will be :) Whatever you do, don't let this overtake your life. These issues can definitely make relationships crumble. Even though you are scared, time will pass and you will see that your girlfriend is loyal to you :)
Trust your gut instinct, thats all i can say. If she starts actin funny (different) then you KNOW somethings goin on. On the same note DO NOT compare and contrast present and past relationships, to each there own! Totally different people, cruise by with this and you'll be fine. After all its not the end of the world if this chick is not ';the one.';





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