In need of relationship and trust advice. pls help?

I have been with my partner nearly 2 yrs we hav a 1 yr old daughter. I had a bad ending to a previous relationship and it left me with trust issues. My bf started work 10 mnth ago and within days had a womans number and was constantly textin and wen I asked to see the msg he wud delete them or keep phone in pocket. 3 times I asked him to remove the number but he ended up puttin the number under a mans name.he is no longer there but I have cought him out more than once sending msgs to exs he has. This is wat my ex did .I don't no if I can trust him ever . I just need an oppinion. Pls helpIn need of relationship and trust advice. pls help?
What is sad here is that you chose to ignore what was probably obvious until after you had a child and he started work -- clearly he was in touch with ex's before, and keeping secrets just as long. My opinion? You are justified in your trust issues, and yet you seem to gravitate towards the same types... think about that for a while. In the mean time, it would seem that you should be getting out of this losing set up and looking for something else.In need of relationship and trust advice. pls help?
i would try to figure out or even meet this other woman see what she says and if you still suspect something ask or just tell her to leave him alone. if you really love him just try to do anythign to keep him yours and try to talk about it. non comunication can ruin a relationship
I did the same thing im sorry your man is cheat ting. if you want to be with him your going to have to deal with it. give HIM a taste of is own medicine but bcare fullll if hdon'tnt like it and he loves you he will stop doing what he is doing
sounds like you already know the answer...you ignored/missed the red flags in your previous relationhship that indicated infidelity so don't miss these signals again; he obviously has something to hide.
if he's sneaking and doing all that then it already over so end it now and save yourself alot more heartache plus theres no going back after all that so just end it and move on and find what you deserve out of a relationship......
dump him, seems like he is dishonest and may even be cheating on you. I know you have a child together, but dont let that be the reason you stay with the guy..
Don't trust him. Not all men lie, you'll find one you can trust. Just not him. Good luck :)
shut up!!
threaten to break up with him that will get his a-s-s in gear
um yea trust is something that needs to be earn make him do something that u know will earn ur trust just my oppinion
Okay look. First off you shouldn't have had a kid with him. Second, if he is a loser, get rid of him. Obviously hes garbage for hiding a woman from you, especially the kids mother!!!!!!! I would threaten him with a break up and see what his response is but don't push it, he may be the type that may abuse emotionally or physically. If he really doesn't show any signs of response then I would go to child services and screw him over for every last cent he has. I would take the kid and move in with a relative or move out of the city and have no contact with him. It is just drama if you do. I would def just get the hell away from him. Not trying to sound rash but he obviously wants other things that you either cant or wont give him or hes just a loser.