My girlfriend has guy friends and I don't totally trust her. Any advice?

She is pretty open sexually, that's part of what makes me nervous. Before you tell me to dump her, I really like her a lot and I want to make things work.My girlfriend has guy friends and I don't totally trust her. Any advice?
i am in the same situation. message me your msn we can talk about it :D i have found a pretty decent way of dealing with it as well.My girlfriend has guy friends and I don't totally trust her. Any advice?
Welcome to the real world, my friend!


I've learned that you should trust her until she gives you a reason not to, but you sure as hell better watch some signs of phone usage between her and these guys. One things for sure, if she starts telling you nothing but stories about how much fun she had doing this with one guy, and how crazy awesome that guy is, you better check yourself.





Above all, you should take her and sit her down and discuss how this makes you feel and the boundaries she has and those you two are willing to compromise on between each other. If she really cares for you, she'll respect your feelings and take them into consideration. If you don't see any kind of change after that, then there's probably no chance.


Best wishes
One of the most important aspects of any functional and moreover healthy relationship is trust. Has she given you any reason to really NOT trust her? Is she the kind of person who might be unfaithful to you? Does she seem like she is lying to you about those guy friends?





If not, she's innocent until proven guilty.





I know it's hard to trust sometimes, but you have to at least give her a chance.





Even try talking to her about it. Don't come across like you're accusing her of anything, just tell her that you like her and you just have trouble trusting people.. you know?
if that's the type of female that you willing to deal with then you have to accept the fact that she might potentially have sex with one of her guy friends. even if you like her if you know that, that is the type of girl she is then how can you change that? trying to control her wont work, you get what see if that's how she is that's how she will be. but you can try talking to her about your concerns to see if there is any middle grounds you both can meet on. like make compromises. it is impossible to be in a relationship with out trust.
Trust, not easy to make, really easy to destroy. A few things. Sex is something to be saved for marriage. Not only is that the biblical thing to do, but having sex before marriage takes alot of the joy out of it. It becomes just physical pleasure and not emotional or spiritual. However, with trust, if you can't trust her, then do you think working things out overnight is going to change things? Do you honestly think marrying her is going to change things either? No, its not.
Here i have a gift for her its a master lock tell her to put it on her Uterus if you cant even trust her than you need to kick her to the kirb but if you decide to stay with her and you find out shes been fooling around give me a call cause she could get it dont let the lipgloss fool you she could get it! but in all seriousness if you cant trust her than thats not a relationship not in my book.
Very simple, trust is earned. When in a relationship you should come first. If she wants to see one or more from time to time invite them over for dinner. Then you will see her around them. If the trust will not be there then look elsewhere. You can't keep what you don't have..
let me tell u a story:





i was with my gf at her school. she handed me her phone(i didnt really trust her from a previous outing with a guy. she acted shady). i was going to mess around on it.(it was an iphone =]) i open the text message screen to text my buddy and i saw the very same guy friend she hung out with. and below his name was the last message sent. and it had a %26lt;3. so i looked at another guys name and under his it said ';i miss u i miss u i miss u i miss u';.......i was crushed.





moral of the story is if u dont trust her thats ur natural instincts telling u that something is off balance. and btw, u'll find through the years that when u have a feeling something is wrong. something is probably wrong.
If you don't trust her, you don't really love her, or you feel that she doesn't love you. Talk to her about it. I understand that you don't want to break up, but if there is no trust, you can't have a decent relationship.
She could have just friendships with these guys. If she gets ';more friendly'; with them, then you have no choice but to dump her or be dumped. The best thing to do is talk to her about these ';friends'; and make sure they are just friends.
Get her pregnant. Then no guy will go near her.
well the first step would be to start trusting her. you dont need to dump her BEFORE she betrays your trust.
if you don't trust her get a new girlfriend easy as that!
try to tell how much u love her


and tell if he love u don't talk to other guys