Advice needed: relationship with guy with trust issues?

ok. i met this guy whom i like. it's not a simple kind of liking. it's funny. i dislike a lot about him. he was hurt bad by a woman a decade ago and since them advertises to the world he's a player. so all he wants is casual flings/sex etc. we fight about everything--mostly debate, but sometimes even about personal stuff. he likes to make fun of things i care about. like, i said. i find him annoying about 50% of the time. but, something inside me keeps telling me it's his way of protecting himself. i care about him. i feel bad for him. he's so-so in bed, and yet i enjoy the intimacy, even though i know he's going to say something annoying right after. so, he has decided we're not right for each other. his defense mechanism against women. i told him i agree. we r keeping our distance from each other. but i think we like each other. is this insane? anyone else been attracted to someone they dont like?Advice needed: relationship with guy with trust issues?
You are attracted to the chase. Most of us women are. We want the ones who don't want us (even if they are bad for us) and could care less about the ones who really love us (our ';just friend'; pal.)





It's normal, I say you stop calling him and see how fast he comes running back!Advice needed: relationship with guy with trust issues?
give it a rest. ever heard of short, simple, and to the point.
Don't waste any more time. Dating is not therapy. Stop trying to save him. Instead refer him to a good therapist; that's what they get paid to do.
your friend needs to see a counselor. you need to step away. you are stepping in front of a run away train who has no idea where his destination is. run away trains never care who they run over or demolish on their way to self destruction. you are being co-dependent. you like the challenge not the person. It's great to be big hearted enough to see the good in everyone, but allowing the beast to continue to destroy your peace and harmony is not in any way healthy. And is no reason to make excuses to keep letting these kind of people in your life. He needs help, professional help. once he goes through a year or so and gets his head out of his hatred, then he can look you up, apologize to you for being a great big azz, then maybe you can start fresh in a new friendship with a clear conscious. let go of the project of trying to help him, you can't, he has to want to help himself and you are wasting your time. your missing out on meeting someone less dramatic and appreciates women. Find a man who gives you more than empty intimacy and stop setteling for what he has to offer, go for what you deserve. you are bright enough to see his attitude is a problem, so cut the dependency strings you have attached to him and vice-versa.

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