Tuesday, April 27, 2010

My girlfriend never takes my advice, does she have a trust issue?

Ok, here's some back story to get u up to speed. She's 19, lives w/ her parents, parents don't trust her cause she always lies. Yesterday she just got taken off of restriction went to her friends house. Told her 'rents she was going to the gym. She gets a speeding ticket, I tell her to tell her parents. She doesn't, tonight we are supposed to go out and her mom finds her ticket while she's on her way to see me and makes her come home. What's wrong with this girl?My girlfriend never takes my advice, does she have a trust issue?
I know it's frustrating. My girlfriend never takes my advice either... even after I proove time and time again that she should have listened to me.


At age 19, your girlfriend is still young and rebelious. She's going to want to do things her own way. The worse part is, as we get older, our views and opinions solidify, sometimes making us even more stubborn than before.


I guess what I'm trying to say, and you'll hear time and again, she's a woman... they don't listen. But it's definitely not a trust issue. My advice, continue to prove to her that she would have been better off if she took your advice, then maybe one day she will realize...My girlfriend never takes my advice, does she have a trust issue?
She's like me...tarrified of her parents...especially when you're about to get caught lying...i dont blame her for not listening to you, especially cuz she didn't ASK for your advice..so why is she obligated to take it?
she needs to stop acting stupid


and sounds like she shouldnt be in a relationship


ask yourself how much you like her and if your willing to stick around


man....she sounds too much and needs to sort her stuff out (attitude)
Dude Trust is the Number one Factor In a Relationship... This influences the whole enchilada. If u feel ur girlfriend doesnt trust u, ask her about it and if she doesnt then theres no point in dating her
I don't know but I'd get rid of her, you may not like that answer but if she can lie to her parents like that imagine what she has lied to you about. I really don't see this getting any better %26amp; you don't want to be with someone like that. I know the type girl you're talking about, I dated one myself. She'd never listen to a word I say, but when ever her sister or mother would tell her the exact same thing I did she'd listen, irritated the hell out of me.





Edit: By the way you'd be a fool to listen to metalhead, she's only siding with your girlfriend because she the exact same way. Of course she (metalhead) should be scared when she's been compromised by her parents, she shouldn't be lying to begin with. If she can't listen to you now when it comes to simple little things, what makes you think she's going to listen to you later on in life if you're still with her many years from now?

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