I want to get some advice on how to earn my trust back with my dad?

i am 17 i will be 18 in december my dad got me an acura TL last year and told me to do right and finish school. I am a junior and have went through some things it seems i am always making bad chioces. It started last year my dad found cigarettes in my room he grounded me and let me have my stuff back the next week then he found pictures of me drinking with my friends. he gave me my stuff back my car was dirty he gave all my stuff back again i started smoking POT... he gave it back again i just kept messing up and i feel like i cant stop but i want to.... I just got caught shoplifting and went to jail got charged and spent bout an hour in jail i sucked so bad and i was so scared it showed me alot about if i continued on the path of what i was doing i would become one of them. I will never touch another drug in my life never steal anything else and i want to start talking to someone but my dad want let me do nothing and is selling my car and took my cell phone what could i do to show him i care and want to do right?





Also i am doing good in school but he says i am a low life but the fact is i am a junior in highschool and i am already taking college classes i was just hanging out with the wrong people!I want to get some advice on how to earn my trust back with my dad?
THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN TELL THESE THING TO HIM BY TALKING TO HIM....THERE IS NO OTHER OPTION......





THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS TAKE YOUR MOM WITH YOU.......[;)]...............BUT NOT NOW........YOU HAVE DONE SO MANY WRONG THINGS......SO YOU HAVE TO TAKE TIME........





HELP YOUR MOM IN HOUSE HOLD WORKS.....AND YOUR DAD...DO YOUR STUDY WELL..........TIME MAKES THE THINGS HAPPEN........





THERE IS NOT ANY SHORT CUT.........





IT HE WILL SELL YOUR CAR AND CELL PHONE...THEN HE CAN BUY THEM AGAIN TOO.......BUT THE THING IS THAT....YOU HAVE DONE TERRIBLE JOBS....SO IT WILL TAKE TIME TO BRING BACK EVERYTHING NORMAL......MAY BE 1 OR 2 YEARS.......I'M TALKING ABOUT MINIMUM.......SO HAVE PATIENCE AND DO THE JOBS I TOLD YOU.....





THEN WHEN YOU FIND YOUR MOM IMPRESSED WITH YOU......THEN ONLY GO FOR YOUR DAD.....NOT BEFORE THAT.......I want to get some advice on how to earn my trust back with my dad?
Stop ******* up, and having committed to that, tell him:


I know I've screwed up a lot, but I'm done with all that juvenile (or childish if you prefer) bad boy crap. It's enough, I've blown off my steam.
your dad kept giving you all these things back after you kept messing up and you really did alot of messing up but shoplifting on top of all the other junk you did well that was probably the last straw for him and he is doing the right thing by not giving into you again, he needs to sell your car, then maybe you will have more respect for your dad and yourself, I'm glad you have straightened up now but you still have a long road to go to prove yourself just keep doing good in school and keep staying away from the wrong people and then eventually you will earn his trust back...good luck
The fact is, your dad is worried about you and rightfully so. If you can see the path you're heading down is wrong, imagine what he sees with all the wisdom of experience at his disposal. He cares and he's trying to make sure you'll be so sorry for these choices that you'll never choose that way again.





Suck it up princess. Keep your nose clean and appreciate all you had before you screwed it up. Be the model kid. Stay away from the losers who got you in this mess. Keep up your grades. Be happy you've got a home with the wealth to offer you the privileges you enjoyed once and may one day be able to enjoy again. Show your dad through time and dedication that you intend your life to be something other than a criminal drug addict and he'll relax and accept you back into his good graces. Trust me, that's what he wants.
Hmmm, you've definitely gone down a wrong path here. As a parent, I can tell you that it's not easy watching a train wreck happen to your kids and you definitely were a fast-moving train. The only thing I know is that time really does settle things down. Of course, you'll have to continue walking a pretty straight line while that happens. Sounds like your dad has been pretty reasonable in the past, so my guess is he will be again. He just needs time to get over it all and see that you're now on a different path. Give it a little time and concentrate on keeping your grades up and life straight and I'm sure he'll come around. Remember, he's scared and he needs to see that you have turned a corner before he trusts you again. In the interim, try talking to a counsellor at school - it can be done on school time. Best of luck kiddo.
The only way to prove to your dad that your done making bad choices is by showing him - this is going to take time. It sounds like you had plenty of opportunities and you blew it. All choices (good or bad) come with consequences - losing your car and cell phone are a product of the the bad choices. There is nothing that you can do in the short term to make him trust you - but going forward do the right thing over time he will see.

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