Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Should i trust him or not? i need advice?

im 15 years old, %26amp; me and this guy from my school started talking to each other about 9 months. two months later, he told me he liked me and i told him the same but that i was not allowed to date


until i was 17. he was a little disappointed but we continued to talk on the phone for about 4 months. i was pretty shy though


so i didnt talk a lot and i was never really myself.. (by the way, hes a year older than me so we never got to see eachother at school very


much at all.) after those 4 months he started to act like he didnt like me as a g/f anymore and he stopped calling me a lot. i was soon told by a reliable friend that he had just got a girlfriend. (who is a year younger than me.) her profile page had comments about them having sex (after only a week). so i mostly forgot about him because i felt like he only wanted one thing. they dated for about 3 weeks (during these weeks he called me a few times and said he still liked me) once they broke up he acted the same way he did before he dated her. but i was different as i was not shy, i was just myself because i didnt care about what he thought anymore. i didnt believe him because he obviously seemed like a player.


and i always reminded him of what he did to me, he said and still says that it was a mistake and he didnt want to be rude and say no to her (no to dating, not the sex, as neither one of us brought it up) now he says how hes here to stay and he really likes me and everything about me.


he doesnt seem like the kind of guy who would play anyone. he also seems to be low in confidence and afraid of what others think about him, which could be the reason he had sex.


but i dont know what to do. should i trust him or not? i really want to. hes a great guy and trustworthy besides this one thing.


any advice?Should i trust him or not? i need advice?
You're thinking way too much! Follow your heart!!! If this is they guy that will bring the best out in you then go for it. One thing though don't go back to being shy! Be yourself!


IF you do get together then be wary! Don't push his little sex thing out of your mind! YOu don't want to be forced into anything you don't want to do! If he starts to be like that get out of it! Make decisions for yourself he is not in control of you!Should i trust him or not? i need advice?
well he talked to you for a really long time before going out with anyone else, so he probably really liked you but just couldnt wait anymore. i mean you guys are young, boys arent gonna wait forever for a girl at this age, no matter how much they like them. but he came back, so he clearly cares. if i were you, id just stay friends with him until your old enough to date. that way, hes still in your life and can fall for you more and more as time goes on. unless you want to defy your parents and go out with him anyway, in which case, go for it until he gives you a reason not to. anyway, thats all ive got. hope i helped a little bit!

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