How do i make him see that he can trust me? i really need your advice.?

my boyfriend of one year has become very worried and has started thinking that i am seeing someone else. he worries when i am late home and its got to the point where he gets so worried that he has an actual panic attack.





this has happened since we got talking about previous relationships, i was married for 7 years before and split with my husband for 6 months. during that time i met someone else as, never knowing that i would ever get back with my husband or even see him again. so i never cheated- i was single at the time.





but now it seems to have made him get worried and for the last 3 days he has got worried when im late home. last night i had to get a taxi home and he called me whilst in the taxi- he heard the taxi driver (a man) talk to me and immediatley assumed it was a man i was meeting.





help!! i have never cheated on him and always tell him if i will be late. he says all he has is blind faith that he can trust me. we love each other and we live together.





how can i help him to get through this without getting angry with him?





what should i do to stop him worrying? he has been hurt in the past and thinks it will happen again.





louise x


How do i make him see that he can trust me? i really need your advice.?
Louis you have cheated in the past.


Don't argue it. Married- separated = still married





What can you do to help build trust?


Be transparent.


Don't engage in flirting


Don't have male friends


Always be open


And have understanding


And always follow thru with what you say.


How do i make him see that he can trust me? i really need your advice.?
show him this question....























(ie show him you wrote this question because you genuinly care, are worried about loosing him and not cheating on him)
If you still like him then solve every thing thriugh love and affection.that is the best remedy available.
Sounds like he has developed an extreme case of jealousy and paranoia about you cheating on him. If I understand you he was not this way until you told him about a previous relationship. His reaction is not in line with what you told him. Is that the first time you have shared anything from your past as far as men are concerned? Obviously you can't keep living this way. If I were you I'd get to a marriage counselor ASAP. Often an objective third party can read through the lines and help people see how something their reactions and thinking is warped. Good Luck