I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I have constant trust issues, i need some advice?

we have broken up 3 times but i feel like we are still madly in love with each other. The only thing that worries me is one of his friends that he hangs out with is a huge flirt and i get really nervous when they are togetherI have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I have constant trust issues, i need some advice?
i have the same problem except it is his brother and he's wayyy worse than a flirt. and everytime my honey says he's going to hang out with his brother: i know that theres going to be grimy slutty girls around, too much alcohol and the likelihood of fighting. it kills me. but what can i do?





the other thing is, if he's going to cheat, he will do it regardless of where he meets the person. at work, in the grocery store or out with his friend. if he is loyal then no matter how many girls come at him, he won't do anything with them





you have to decide, is he a cheater or loyal and then believe yourselfI have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I have constant trust issues, i need some advice?
You guys have been together for a while. So it seems to me that you have a good bond. And if something bothers you you should really at this point be comfortable opening up to him and talking about it.





the girl who is a huge flirt probably has her own issues of insecurity with her guy or just really wants a relationship. But make sure your man is happy and see if his behavior changes... if it has maybe talk to him like I said above. Otherwise.. just try to trust him and give him the benefit of the doubt. Not doing so can really hurt your relationship.





Make sure he is happy at home :) and tell him you love him :)
ummm, don't worry about it, if he really loves you he wouldn't do anything. if he does do something then he's not worth it. plus remember, if you can't trust him then you really shouldn't even be with him because TRUST is something MAJOR on a relationship
well have you talked to him about it? and if hes willing to stay with you for 4 years i would say you mean way more to him than she does(or he haha) and if you talk to him and he doesn't take you seriously or won't change then maybe there is something you have to worry about
welll, i had this prob once. u just rly need to trust he loves you, and also know that sometimes, guys just rly cant help flirting..it just happens for them sometimes. like BAM. its not like they can help it much..