She doesn't trust me.... Advice?

hi,


i love her more than words can say


i love her so much that i believe im the first one in the universe that reached that much of love to someone !!





but yet.. she doesn't trust me?!


she loves me too - not as much as i do - but she do and a lot.


but she doesn't trust me!?





every time we go out on a date she thinks im looking at other girls!


we went out with her friends.. and then she thought i was looking at her friend!


i took her to the mall.. she repeatedly kept on telling me not to look at the girls?!





and that whole time,


i swear to God i didn't even took one look at any girl !


when i go out with her i look at the ground so she wont think im looking at any girl... and yet she comes and tell me :


';i saw how you looked at that girl'; ?!!





im really upset


and i tell her over and over .. im not looking!


and she said :


';dont say that to me!


i had it from you and your excuses';





doen't she understand that i love her and to me she is the most beautiful girl on earth and im not interested in any girl beside her!!





i don't know what to do or say


really im torn down!


any help??She doesn't trust me.... Advice?
Hello,





Sounds to me like your girlfriend is insecure of herself. I think you should just tell her what you wrote... ';i love her and to me she is the most beautiful girl on earth and im not interested in any girl beside her!!';





Let her know how important it is that she trust you and that she stop worrying about you looking at other girls. A lot of girls will be with a guy just to make themselves feel ';beautiful';. Sad to say but most girls who dont have boyfriends believe something is wrong with her. How old is she? If she is young, this is just a consequence to behave this way especially if she has been cheated on before or hurt by other guys or maybe even problems with her parents. I think you need to rethink things espcially if she is insecure about herself. If she was confident, she wouldnt even be paying attention to you looking at other girls or worried that you may be cheating on her. I suggest you talk things through with her. Tell her it bothers you and it drives you insane and over all it hurts you because she isnt trusting in you and is calling you a liar. No matter how many times you tell her she is beautiful she wont truely see it until she starts realizing she has a self esteem problem and she wants to allow you to help her see her own beauty. Until than your stuck in this situation.She doesn't trust me.... Advice?
This sounds like your girl has self-esteem issues. It's nothing you've done, it's all on her. Sounds like she doesn't think much of her appearance or whatever and so everytime you even glance at a girl, she automatically assumes you're comparing her to other girls.





I'm not sure what you can do, except to keep telling her you love her (as long as its true) and that she's beautiful and, one day, she might believe you.
the way i see it, its not about you nor her trust, its about her and how she feels about herslf..girls (or even women) have this fear of losing people or things they cherish the most, the insecurity manifest in jealousy and doubts towards the subject of their emotions..if u truly do love her, dont give up, let her know and constantly remind her u do so..hope it works well, goo luck!
Have you hurt her before in the past? Because I know I have trust issues with my boyfriend because he flirts with other girls. Even though he says he loves me more than anything and that I'm perfect and the only one for him he doesn't show it well. Maybe you just need to show her you really care
She's very insecure. You should have a serious talk with her about her behavior and tell her how it makes you feel. If it continues (and it probably will!) you will have to make the decision as to if you can deal with this, or move on.
She deserves to be dumped. So do the same things she does i. e. you also blame her that she is looking for some other guy and dump her otherwise you will not be happy any way. It is better to get rid of her.
Your possessed dude. Get some self asteem, suck it up, and confront her. Figure of speech: Anyone who threatens to kill themselves over another person is the problem.
She is so possessive. That is pure torture. Talk to her about it is the best solution.
uhm.. girls don't really trust guys right away because well of our past relationships.





Idea!


you should prove to her that you love her and maybe it'll get her to trust you... like i dont know, just erm set up a candlelight date or something weird and romantic like that.. and tell her all kinds of fascinating things.. and even tell her your deepest darkest secret and that'll show her that you are really committed to her and it might get her to trust you that much more.





i hope you guys last a long time because you really seem like you are crazy for this girl...


- i mean look into her eyes when your talking to her


- keep telling her shes beautiful and gorgeous


- flirt with her all the time


- wrap your arms around her and never let go..





they may sound corny but it'll get a girl in a heartbeat..


i can promise you that..


and if it doesn't work. then you should find another girl because if she doesn't care enough for you to trust you then shes not worth the pain and suffering.. good luck :D





- KaylaNicole