Trust issues? advice appreciated?

I am not sure what I should do. My boyfriend got very drunk at a party that I was not at and went and kissed another girl. A girl that I know. He did not tell me for a couple of days, mostly because he said he did not remember, he was so drunk. He heard rumors about it and had to go to this girls house and hear straight from her what happened. Her exact words where that he came up to her pecked her on the lips then he must of realized what he was doing and walked away. He talked to his friends about it before he came to me because he was afraid of my reaction. When he told me at first I was okay with it. I mean it was a peck, and he was very sincere and apologetic when he told me. But now he jokes about it, I am sure to make light of it when it comes up into conversation. Which really isn鈥檛 that often, but it is enough. I say that I trust him still but I am not sure of myself. I mean we have a strong bond and I feel like a very strong relationship. I just never thought this would happen to us, we have be dating faithfully for four years . I want to forgive and forget but I can seem to make it disappear. I always say I would never forgive cheating. But is it really cheating? I just don鈥檛 know. What would you have done in this situation. Am I overracting? Any advice and reassurances would be greatly appreciated.Trust issues? advice appreciated?
It's not a trust issue - it's that he hurt your feelings and is joking about it.





Talk to him and explain that it was bad enough that it happened, please respect you and stop talking about it.





BTW, kissing another girl isn't cheating, it's an indiscretion. One indiscreation after 4 years and you're doubting the relationship? Tells me that there's more behind the story, but can't comment since the background isn't there. My advice, work on all of the other things that have been happening and adding to your anxiety, this is just the one that put you over the top.