Trust advice ppleaseeeee?

I know its long . But i have an SOS








Ok. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3.2 years now %26amp; he's the heaven in my life. I'm very happy with him and i love every moment with him. Well, a few years ago i started liking this guyand this guy liked me. The only reason that i ever liekd him was cause my bf and i were going through a rough patch and that other guy was like a shoulder to lean on. My boyfriend doesnt know anytihng bout it and i have no plans whatsover tellnig him even if i know i should. I love him very much and things now are very better. still i can't find a WAY TO TRUST HIM. Even though i know and guarantee he never ever did anything wrong. Im talking about a bf that doesnt even talk to my friends. I feel as if he is but i can never find proof. i tell him how i feel and he quotes ';why would i do that to you? With a relarionship this long, do u think i'll be looking at other girls. i love you and i dont want to do anything to lose you.'; i dont know what to do. The only reason i think this way is im scared that ima get karma. Please i need help.


Trust advice ppleaseeeee?
Your past fears are messing with your mind and you are feeling guilt over leaning on the shoulder of the guy through a tough time in your current relationship. Try and stay open with him from now on and quit laying any unneeded guilt on your bf. If he is doing nothing wrong be glad for his honesty and trust with you. From this day forward stay close and loyal to any relationship you are keeping at the moment. That way you you will feel less guilty upon any actions taken from the past or any time. Move on and be glad for your bf who seems to be into you......Trust advice ppleaseeeee?
haha lady calm down. just trust him and stick to him. theres no such thing as karma but you should tell him cause if he did the same thing wouldnt you want to know? if you want this to last, be honest. afterall honesty is first key to any relationship/friendship.
If you don't intend to tell him just keep it a secret ,the rest is as per Normal in life ,dear, is not that complicated . Karma is for married couples not you ! So be Happy .
you feel that way because you feel guilty no way to get over it and if you keep thinking that he will do that to you it will never work
You should tell him because communication is key in a relationship. Without communication you mine as well break up, you both need to talk to each other.
raider said it best .. unfortunately youre prolly feelin this way cause you feel guilty. Ive been there, I messed around on my GF way back when and always felt like she was doing the same thing. i was always trying to catch her but she was a saint. I eventually told her and it felt great to get it open. we communicate much better now and the trust is growing better ever day. I dont wanna tell you that you have to tell him if you dont want to but it might help your trust issues. hope everything works out.
You know what in relationships we choose whom to give our trust and whom we deny it, and you will realise that trust is given and not just earned as we have commonly been told.


If this has not done any thing for you to mistrust him, why are you in the first place mistrusting the ';heaven of your life';


if he's so nice to you and you dont want to lose him, I think you will have to pull yourself together and decide that you are going to trust him no matter what.


Good luck